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Relationship Dynamics

Relationship Dynamics Relationships can be very confusing. When problems emerge, people often get so caught up and focus on the specifics at hand that they fail to realize the larger issues at play. And this failure to understand the dynamics underlying our relationships often makes it more difficult for people to resolve conflict and move beyond their current problems. Relationships involved three basic dynamics. These dynamics are always present and they constantly influence our behavior. By focusing on these larger issues, rather than the specific problem at hand, it is typically easier to see what is going on. And often it is easier resolve a specific problem when the larger, underlying issue is addressed. Power – all relationships involve issues of power and control. Typically, people like to influence their partner’s behavior while at the same time they do not like being unduly controlled or influenced by a partner. In other words, people would like to be a...

10 Reasons that forced her to break up with you

10 Reasons that forced her to break up with you   Heartbreak – we all have been through it one way or the other. It is not a stranger in our streets of love. A million songs written about it, movies depicting it as a lingering ghost. Both men and women dump each other when their relationship is unable to work. However, everything aside, there are no good guys or bad guys in a breakup, just two people who did not work out. It is imperative to keep this in mind when we discuss probable reasons of women dumping men. Yes, the first thing that comes to mind here is-  Wait, women cheat on men too . There is always more than meets the eye. At times, the women are to blame; other times, the men. There is only so much we can blame on others. We all do things we might not always know why, yet there is always a reason. When one partner dumps the other, no one is to carry the blame alone, both play equal roles in it. It just depends on which angle you see the situation ...