Am Happy Now……anyway
Am Happy
Now……anyway
As I write this story, am full of tears and joy.
September 2013, my father call me home that he has someone for me
to marry that this guy live abroad but he is coming home to Nigeria to stay and
take care of his late father’s property and business and that before the guy’s
father died, he had told me that is my father that he should make sure to marry
his daughter to his own son. I was happy when I had this and because I was not
in any relationship that was serious than and again I was 26 years old than and
the guy in question is rich and handsome, so I was happy but I later found out
that the guy in question has a girl that is also a Nigerian and they have been
dating for the past 4 years. I didn’t care because I knew he has no choice but
to marry me because of his father’s wish.
On the 15th of December 2013. He came to Nigeria to
settle down and he came on the 19th of December to see my parents,
on the next day he call me for a date for us to talk. He ask me if am happy
with all this, I said yes and he looked at me and said he is not happy and that
he is doing all this because of his late father’s wish but if I refuse the
proposal that the wedding can be cancel but I told him that I will love to
marry him.
On March 8th 2014 we got married richfully and I was
happy but I didn’t see any true happiness in the face of my husband. On our
honeymoon night he did not sleep on the same bed with me. He slept on the floor
of the hotel room. I didn’t want to question much so I let it be. The next day
he booked for another room in the same hotel and when I ask why he why he just
slap me real had and say to my face that he done his father’s wish and there is
no place that his father said he should treat me well. He left the to the other
room and I went to bed crying and crying and all of a sudden, he came into my
hotel room with his ex-girlfriend and told me that this is true wife. After one
week, we left the hotel and the girl went, while my husband and I went home.
Since that day my husband doesn’t come home regularly or even answer my
greeting or even care about all he does is to send me money to my account and
check no his mother. This continued till 10th of December 2014. He
came home to tell me that he as a business contract to do in America. He Travel
on the 14th of December 2014 and never returned home or even called
me on till May 7th 2015. He came home with his mum and the mum told
me that my husband came home to tell me that he has a baby girl with his
ex-girlfriend now. I didn’t know what to say and I only cry but still say “it
ok it all my fault” my husband looked at me and said “Yes.. it all your fault,
live with the wealth and this house but without happiness and no love. They
left and he never returned until January 10th 2016. Before then he
called me that he will be coming home. So I told my friend and she gave me a
drug that will make my husband feel horny and he will have no choice but to
make love to me. On that day my husband came home and all he could say was that
he only came to make sure I don’t lack anything, so I said that he should sit
and have a talk with me, so I brought drink and he took it unknowingly that I
put something inside. Hmmm that day we made love from 10am till the next day.
It was just eating and drinking and making love. I was happy saying “Yes I am
happy” the drug worked so well. It was the next morning that the drug clear and
he was surprise and angry because I told him what I put inside his drink and he
ask me if we made love, I laugh and said yes…..yes many times. He left but
since then if I call him he will not pick, I was not surprise because it not
new. One month later I discovered I was pregnant….oh my.…oh my… I was happy, my
family was happy and my friend…. At last I have what to hold on to and look at
and I cry a tears of joy. I called my husband mum and told her, she said how
did I get myself pregnant and she called me all such of foolish names but I
didn’t care and I told her to ask her son, even the girlfriend called me and
insulted me like never before, she even came to my house and fight but my
sister and my friend were around so she couldn’t do anything. My husband called
me a month late and ask me if I needed money for anything, I said no and he
said I don’t called him like before again, I laugh and told him that I now have
what to look up to.
On October 15th 2016, I gave birth to a set of twin
(boy & girl) I was full of joy. My father called my husband to tell him, he
came straight away to see his children. When he came he ask me how I was doing
and also said thank you to me, I look at him and said thank you too. Since then
till now my husband has change a little. Coming home and also he apologies to
me and also beg me to accept his first daughter as my own, I have no choice but
to accept. Now we are working out things together.
I want to say THANK YOU to you ma for your wonderful advice,
courage, it has really help me out and you have given me a lot courage to move
on in this marriage and thank you again for this great page you set up.
God bless you.
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