LOVE

 

What is Love?

There is a lot of definition of love. It meaning varies on how people feel toward it. A lot of people define love on they see it.

Love is a feeling towards a person or pet or anything you hold in higher esteem.

Love is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties.

Love is a great interest and pleasure in something.

Love is an affection towards somebody. You can give your own meaning of love on how you feel.

Love is a great thing because it gives you meaning to what has no meaning at all. Loving a person is good and it helps a relationship to grow well. Love can make you do things you can’t naturally do. You don’t choose whom to fell in love with, love does that for you. The heart chooses whom to love that is why you can love anybody. Love can make fell in love with an ugly person because the love in you will not see the ugly part of that person but the beautiful part or handsome part of that person. Love can make love a man that is poor and you will see yourself living with that person even in that kind of situation. It loves that is making you to do all that. Love is funny because you can love a person that is not in the same level as you. A story of an hard working and rich lady who fell in love with an un serious and lazy guy. This guy is so lazy that even when she try to get a job for him he refuse to wok and even she open a business for him he still did not take it serious an everything went down the drain but still she not give up on him simply because she love him so much that she is not seeing all this negative part of the guy as anything wrong until she got tired and left that was when she could see all the wrong prt of him and see that she actually love a wrong guy for years that could happen because she no longer love him. The love was actually gone.

Love is important in marriage or relationship

Love is one great key that is needed in any marriage or relationship. Loving your partner can make you bear anything and be patient with your partner at any situation. Being there for someone is what a real relationship needs. When we neglect to put in the effort is when things don't work out with someone that could have been perfect for us. If you put in that extra effort for someone that can reciprocate it, love can be the greatest feeling one can ever feel. The language of love is very important in marriage and relationship like words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. All is are very sweet and important don’t be shy in showing it a thing of joy and happiness, it keeps the marriage and relationship and longer. A relationship is composed of friendship, sexual attraction, intellectual compatibility, and, of course, love.

Love is the glue that keeps a relationship strong and solid

Signs of love in marriage/relationship

v Happiness: being happiness with your partner even when things are not working fine.

v Trust: trusting your partner even when there is room for doubt

v You make sacrifices for their happiness or wellbeing even if they may not realize it

v Bearing all things together

v Supporting each other in the face of problem

v Not hurting each other

v Understanding each other

v Listening before acting

v Defending each other at all time

v Never give up in each other

v Going extra mile to make each other goals work out.

v Loving each other all the time.

v Having time for each other

We can go and on…  

Showing love is a good thing and it never wrong. Is  loving a person wrong. Loving a person is wrong only when it become obsessive.

Can love be obsessive?

Obsessive love refers to a condition where you become obsessed with one person you think you may be in love with. You might feel the need to protect your loved one obsessively or even becomes controlling of them as if they were a possession. Being obsess over a person is not love at all because the person will be seeing things wrong, even when you are hugging a friend or brother or sister the person that is obsess in love with you will get jealous and might do bad things to hurt you or the person that is involve with you. The person who is obsess toward you claiming that is love, that person simply feel in secure about the love he or she has having fear of losing you or get jealous about everything you do. Love can never be obsessed.

Love is sweet when is returned. When a person show you love and the love is not return that is you don’t show love back to the person can get tired of loving you someone. When someone give you love you need to show it back by given love in return.

Can love kill?

Love doesn’t hurt it hurt. A man said the reason he killed his wife is because he love her so much and because she wants to leave him, he decided to kill her because he feel no one can love the way he do. If you love her so much then why did she wants to leave you. He so obsess with her that her going out is a problem. If she is on the phone, he will want to know the person that calls her.  He took her life after their divorce was finalized. Be careful the when you are in love with a person or when a person is in love with you. If the person is obsess with you watching your every move then it not love but obsession because it can be dangerous.

There is a lot of story of love that when you hear you will never wish to love anyone or be in any relationship or marriage but let me say this that loving someone is good and it not wrong when someone love you back but do not get obsess while loving a person because human can change and you should not be surprise because it is in the nature of human to fail you even when you didn’t expect it.  Money can change a person, time can change a person. When you don’t give your time in relationship a person can leave and go be with someone that give them time. Love is funny and love is just love.

Be happy with yourself and love yourself and if someone show love to you love them back