TRUST IN MARRIAGE

Patience Andrew

 


Trust is a big word. Trust is like a feeling you have in other person or feel towards a person you love or even family.

What is trust itself?

Trust is the assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something

Trust is one in which confidence is placed.

Trust dependence on something future or contingent.

Trust is a legal relationship in which the holder of a right gives it to another person or entity who must keep and use it solely for another's benefit.

Trust is also believing in someone with or without seeing the truth. Trust is the reliability, truth, or ability of having confidence in a person.

Trust in marriage

A marital trust is a fiduciary relationship between two person in a relationship or marriage. Trust is very important in marriage it keeps the life of the marriage together. Trust takes away jealous. Trust makes a lie looks like the truth because if you trust in a person, no matter what people says about that person you won’t still doubt that person . Trusting your partner is very important cause it will make you feel safe until it proven otherwise. 

What does trust means in a marriage?

Trust in marriage is the faith you have in your partner that he/she will always remain loyal to you and love you. To trust someone means that you can rely on them and are comfortable confiding in them because you feel safe with them.

 

How to build Trust in a Marriage

1.    Align your words and actions. In any important relationship, trust will grow when your words consistently match your actions. ...

2.    Show love in all your action even when you have doubt

3.    Show respect. ...

4.    Compromise your values. ...

5.    Be honest. ...

6.    Say you're sorry. ...

7.    Focus on connection. ...

8.    Have a conversation. ...

9.    Create emotional safety.

10.                      Listen before taking any action

11.                      Talk about the issue first before doubting your partner

Can marriage survive without trust?

A marriage that there is lack of trust cannot survive, there will always room for doubt. Trust is the main key for a marriage. Having no trust in marriage is not a good place to be. If the marriage is to continue and thrive, There is no scope for lack of trust in a relationship. Trust must be established again by both partners. Communicating honestly is the key to making the situation better. If there is no trust in a marriage or relationship the issues will arises

Signs of trust issues:

  1. Always doubting the where about of your spouse: the person will doubt where step or move you make.
  2. Looking for lie in every word your partner says. Every word you say will look like a lie to the ear of the person
  3. Avoiding commitment: Trying to keep a distance from his or her partner
  4. Assuming people are doing things to hurt you: feeling in secure around people 
  5. Isolating yourself from others. Always staying alone with though that people are bad and not worthy of you
  6. Being overly secretive about yourself. Not letting people in
  7. Picking fights. Finding things that cause fight in the home
  8. Feeling overprotective: doing thing that you feel secure in
  9. Reluctance to open up: keeping to yourself
  10. Process past hurts: having unforgiving spirit

It is very important to have trust in your partner to avoid issues one can’t handle.

What causes no trust in marriage?

 

A lack of trust may stem from previous experiences; or has been abused in the past, cheated on, or suffered from family issues such as a parent walking out. A person that has been in a bad marriage before will find it difficult to give his or her full trust in the present marriage.

 

Trust can be broken if you keep creating room for doubt. If someone put all their 100% trust in you try to keep it up by doing things that keep the trust on. Never take a person trust for granted simply because you know that this person believes in you.

 

A couple that always fight doesn’t mean there is never trust in their home is just that one way or the other the trust in their home is broken. Love is trust and trust is never doubt. The love you have in a person makes you trust them with everything until they prove otherwise. Trust can easily fail when you do things that brake that trust in the person believes in you but love doesn’t change even when the heart is broken and when it amend the love you have for that person never change.

 

Things that help build trust in marriage or relationship

 

  • Communicate effectively.
  • Don't keep secrets.
  • Learn to always say the truth at all cause
  • Be open by everything
  • Keep your promises.
  • No cheating.
  • Say sorry when you are wrong
  • Take responsibility for your actions.
  • Be present and engaged

Trust is very important, it keep the relationship strong and secure.

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