Marriage and Relationship Advice

  'Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?' Having the right relationships will help you to soar in life; they're like the wind beneath your wings. And the wrong relationships will drag you down, like a ball and chain around your feet. To know which relationships are good for you and which are not, here are three guidelines   3 Main Guidelines (1)             When a relationship is not working, acknowledge it. Sometimes you must cut your losses. The old saying goes, 'When you're in a hole, stop digging!' Accept the fact that sometimes your efforts are not enough and that you can't help everyone. Releasing someone doesn't mean they will never get better; it just means that God is more qualified to help them than you are.   (2)             There is a difference between helping someone and carrying them. This is particularly so w...

  NEVER EVER FORGET THESE POWERFUL POINTS IN LIFE..   1. Always remember that you can grow without destroying others.   2. Always remember that your dreams can be fulfilled without sabotaging others.   3. Always remember that nobody must go down for you to rise.   4. Always remember that nobody must be shamed or embarrassed for your smile to be sustained.   5. Always remember that while others are rising, you can also rise.   6. Always remember that finding satisfaction in the pain of others will never bring you true satisfaction.   7. Always remember that what you wish others is a prayer for yourself.   8. Become the good fire that genuinely lights up others, not one that ruins the joy, goodwill, and expectation of others.   9. Never take delight in causing pain or sponsoring the tears of others.   10. Allow the true FEAR OF GOD to guide your days, STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS and SET YO...

  Marriage is a very beautiful thing. Marriage can build you or even break you to pieces so you need to be careful before going into it. Marriage is the union of two different people from different background of different mindset coming together to become one so it is very good to marry someone you truly love. The love you feel for that person will make you go through trials with that person and both of you can’t survive through anything and marriage can't survive forever on leftovers. It needs to be fed continually or it will eventually starve so you need to always work on your marriage. WORK ON YOUR MARRIAGE Getting married is easy; living together successfully is hard. So how do you do it? By identifying issues that must be resolved, working on them, and learning to live with the rest! How should you handle conflicts when they arise? (1) Attack the problem instead of each other. (2) Keep your voice low, stay calm, and your partner is more likely to pay attention. (3) Cho...