Marriage and Relationship Advice

You feel emotionally wrecked for months, I remember I cut off my connection from humanity; I worked myself like a dog into the depths of the night and exhausted myself to sleep. Everything was better than the pain I had been through. After a bad breakup people, toss themselves in a realm of self-imposed harm. In search of a rebound, they end up dating the wrong people all over again, causing further damage, harm and suffering to their already-battered existence. Even though they yearn to feel again, they end up suffering from emotional blockages. The best thing to do at this point is to stop trying and to figure out what went wrong. You feel emotionally wrecked for months, I remember I cut off my connection from humanity; I worked myself like a dog into the depths of the night and exhausted myself to sleep. Everything was better than the pain I had been through. What happened everyday? I wouldn’t actually be able to explain it but I do know that life was hard and I w...

23 signs that tell you she’s the woman you’ll be spending your whole life with 1. Her presence inspires you to be better than you were yesterday, to strive and get more out of this life that we’re granted and to just reach newer heights every day. 2. You always went through life feeling like this emotionless guy. You felt like nothing in the world could make you break that strong exterior wall you had slowly built around you. But suddenly, this girl just makes you want to love, she makes you want to be truly happy and she even has the potential to make you cry. All these emotions that you never felt before are just so unreal and amazing. 3. You’ve noticed this one weird thing lately. Her smile makes you smile. Sometimes, you don’t even have any idea behind the reason for her smile but just the fact that she’s happy makes you even happier. 4. The same happens when she laughs. You just have to hear that laughter once and all your tensions and worries go away. 5. Bu...

She is optimistic Very few people in the world are blessed enough to stay optimistic even after all the hardships life throws their way. Have you started to look at the glass as half full instead of half empty since the day she walked into your life? Does her positive vibe automatically make you begin to smile a little brighter every time she walks into the room? Is she the kind of person who has the ability to find a silver lining no matter how bad a situation might be? If the answer to all or even one of these questions is a yes, then this girl is definitely a keeper. She is the girl who will always be your rock. The girl who will stay strong in the moments when you can’t. The girl who will start to make your life better just by being a part of it. She supports all your goals and dreams Everyone hopes to figure out what they truly want in life. Everyone wants to discover that one thing that has the power to keep them happy forever. Everyone wants to de...

14 Things To Never Post About Your Relationship On Social Media   There is no doubt that in this age of accessible information, social media has played a huge role in shaping our relationships and social interactions. A lot of times, people can develop romantic entanglements and social unions with minimal physical contact because of social media. The advent of social media has made long-distance relationships much easier and more manageable. It’s no secret that social media interaction can either make or break a relationship. While social media is a relatively new phenomenon to society, it’s important that we are aware of some basis unwritten rules about social media usage especially when it comes to relationships. There are some absolute no-no’s that you need to take note of before you start broadcasting your relationship on social media. Here are just a few of them. 1. Don’t post about your bedroom activities. This should be left unsaid, right? But you would ...

6 Things That Men Need To Learn Before Getting Into a Relationship While no one is ever completely ready go get into a relationship, it’s always best to be as prepared as possible. A relationship is always a learning process wherein the people involved grow and learn with each other as they go along. However, there are things that you can prepare for to make the experience relatively smooth and trouble-free. It helps if both people going into the relationship are mature and experienced individuals who know what it takes to make a relationship work. These people know that relationships are difficult and they aren’t necessarily walks in the park. So what do you do if you’re not as experienced as others? Don’t worry. We’ve highlighted some things for you to learn before you start getting serious with someone. Here are the 6 things that you need to develop before getting into a relationship: 1. Develop your own sense of self-awareness. Before you start trying to find lov...

Am Happy Now……anyway As I write this story, am full of tears and joy. September 2013, my father call me home that he has someone for me to marry that this guy live abroad but he is coming home to Nigeria to stay and take care of his late father’s property and business and that before the guy’s father died, he had told me that is my father that he should make sure to marry his daughter to his own son. I was happy when I had this and because I was not in any relationship that was serious than and again I was 26 years old than and the guy in question is rich and handsome, so I was happy but I later found out that the guy in question has a girl that is also a Nigerian and they have been dating for the past 4 years. I didn’t care because I knew he has no choice but to marry me because of his father’s wish. On the 15 th of December 2013. He came to Nigeria to settle down and he came on the 19 th of December to see my parents, on the next day he call me for a date for us to talk....

There is no denying that there are still some people who think that a woman’s place should only be in a home raising children and doing household chores, but this kind of thinking is slowly evaporating and rightfully so. In times past, it had been known that the sole purpose of the existence of a woman was to serve as a man’s means to reproduce and maintain familial lineage. However, over time, the misogyny of society has been on a gradual decline and the status of women has been on a slow rise. Women are making waves in various branches of society these days, and they are no longer relegated to being mere housewives or homemakers. They are called on to serve much more prominent and important aspects of the society in general. It should be no surprise that over time, a bulk of women have grown disinterested in the idea of marriage. Marriage requires a lot of shared time and commitment between two people; and for the women who are ambitious, driven, and goal-oriented, time and co...

How I learnt to accept change The more I began to hate it, the more it started to take over me. It felt as if life could sense my fears. It felt as if life kept trying to mock me in the most unexpected ways. And it felt as if I would never be able to find the strength to accept things as they were, to forget about the past and truly live in the present, to enjoy every single day, to live in the moment and to be grateful for the things I have. Change – it’s something that has always scared me the most in life. And I’m not just talking about the big changes. No, I mean change of all kinds and in all ways – whether it’s something as trivial as changing the furniture in my bedroom to something as depressing as my best friend shifting to a far-away city. I had always despised it. I had always tried to run away from it. And I had always thought of it as the worst aspect of human life. But the more I began to hate it, the more it started to take over me. It felt ...